If you find someone with a beautiful heart, treat them well as you treat yourself.
This world might be filled with many beautiful faces but few, very few beautiful hearts.
A man told me one day if his wife does something, he commands her not to do, and he would send her out of his house back to her parents; that it’s very wrong for a woman to disobey her husband no matter what. Well, I couldn’t hold my chill, I opposed him passionately and he resorted to calling me a kid; you won’t understand till you get married.
Please single guys, when you want to get married just remind yourself that the woman you’re getting married to will be your life partner, not your servant.
You aren’t doing her a favor by getting married to her, so don’t ever feel that sending her back to her parents means she’ll die or lose her womanhood.
When you get married so then be honest with your life partner because you are everything for her more than everything. She leaves her home, parents, brothers, sisters and other relatives due to you and she makes herself ready to get married to. If you cannot give her command on everything to do then just give her command on herself.
Your wife is not your errand girl, she’s like a colleague and she’s important like you in that marriage, so you don’t command her to do things, you don’t just give orders, No!
Both of you are to reach a stand that favors you two, nobody should be favored and the other displeased based on gender differences.
“There are no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship communion and company than a good marriage.”
“Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his life.”
No matter how much you spent marrying your wife, it doesn’t still justify you objectifying her; treating her like your property.
She is human, and her opinions and contributions are highly important as far as your marriage with her is concerned.
Your headship in marriage is the position of love, the attribute of lavishly loving your wife. If you abuse your wife, you aren’t leading her; you aren’t even yet married to her. When a man is truly a husband, his wife will be happy and submissive in the marriage.
“No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or Mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed indeed.”
Be a real man today.